Mantras for Sex-cess

Separate the myth from the fact and enjoy a rocking sex life...

Men want sex more than women do: Myth or fact? Bad sex always leads to break-ups: Myth or Fact? If he had an affair, he doesn't love you: Myth or Fact? Sex myths make us feel bad about ourselves and most of the time, they're not true. Which are true and which are false? Read on...

Men Want Sex More Than Women Do

True, to a certain extent. In the canine world, it's said that the dog is always in heat, something that holds true for homo sapiens too! Then again, women are more likely to do most of the housework on top of holding down a job. So, needless to say, they are more exhausted and less bonk-happy. Plus, hormones make women feel like having a lot of sex during certain times of the month, rather than all of the time. And because women tend to attach more emotions to sex than men do, they aren't going to beg him for action just to satisfy a physical need. They would rather wait for the right moment!

If You're A Great Lover, You Can Please Anyone

Someone who knows a lot about sex and has had lots of practice is bound to be better in bed than an inexperienced virgin. But this is crazy about your guy, however inexperienced, it may just be the best sex you've ever had.

Happy Couples Have Good Sex Most Of The Time

Toss this one out of the window, please! Life and all its pressures get in the way for all of us. Does it mean your friend is lying if she claims to have fabulous sex after five years of marriage and two kids? Maybe. Or maybe she thinks you have a great sex life and doesn't want to admit she doesn't. Or maybe her definition of great sex is different from yours. Or maybe she really does have terrific sex... once a month. It's all subjective and open to interpretation.

Dress To Be Undressed

Sex appeal is not about how you look to others but about transmitting how you feel inside. When they say sexiness is all in the mind, it's the right idea. Use your clothes to unleash the sex siren inside you. Go to your closet and examine your clothes. Which items makes you feel desirable? Here's how to make you feel desirable? Here's how to make your clothes work for you:

• If you are holding onto items that carry sad memories, get rid of them.
• Stay away from clothes that feel too tight and uncomfortable. Lose colors that are not you. You want yur clothes to frame you, not to steal attention away from you.
• Pick clothes that you want to be touched in, garments that fit your figure and feel good to touch - like silk velvet, mohair, cashmere, chenille, chiffon and such pleasing materials.
• Go ahead and wear nylon stockings and garters, or silk underwear (if you can afford it), even if no one will see it.
• If you are feeling especially daring, go commando under under your dress!

As long as you know you're wearing these items (or not wearing them!), that's hat counts. Be cool, be sexy.

Bedroom Boosters

Experiment with these tried and tested tips to take your sack session one step further...

• Kiss with your eyes wide open.
• Extend your foreplay time... Considerably.
• Write a sensual smut story about the two of you. Read it out aloud to each other. You can even try to enact some really hot passages!
• Make love somewhere other than your home.
• Experiment with different types of kisses.
• Experiment with different food during foreplay.
  

Demanding Diva

Most women think great sex is all about the man's performance. Well, if your man is good at something and enjoys ladies, remember, sex is a two-way act and serves its purpose better with equal participation. By simply expressing a desire for your guy, you can make your man feel sexually powerful. And even more. Let him know how badly you want him, in as much detail as you can. It will be a big turn on, even if you aren't the most experienced or skilled lover. Speak up!

If You Have To Make Time For Sex, Something Is Wrong

Heaven help your partner if you believe this one. Desire may well tap you on the shoulder in the early stages of a relationship but the hormones that fuel the tapping disappear after about 18 months. Spontaneous sex is usually good sex. But planning a sex session, anticipating it, looking forward to it makes for pretty good sex.

Men Are More Promisuous Than Women

This one is probably true but much less than you think. When it comes to sex, men overestimate while women underestimate. Blame it on societal pressures. How much sex a man or woman had had depends a lot on the looks. For instance, an attractive, sexually liberated women is likely to have had more partners than an average-looking guy of the same age.

If He Had An Affair, He Doesn't Love Me

Wrong again. If your partner cheats, it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love you. It does, however, mean he doesn't respect you, which is worse!

Women Don't Like Porn Or Dirty Sex

Not all women want rose petals scattered across the bed and romantic massages. There are many who would rather pick raunchy, lusty, wicked romps. Every woman is different. The bottom line? Anyone who thinks men are the only ones conjuring up lurid, graphic fantasies about people around them is deluded.

Stay Sexy With Chocolate

One of the undisputed kings of aphrodisiacs, chocolate has long been used to stoke the flames of passion the world over. In fact, its supposed power to rouse libido has led to a chocolate ban in some monastries!

Smoocholgy

Do it in private. Privacy is the key to a great kiss. A big mistake that too many guys make is going for a kiss in the wrong situation. Women have lot of hopes pinned on that first kiss. And most women would prefer to share the moment with you and you alone. So if you're out somewhere - at a club, party or restaurant - and you feel a kiss bubbling under, take her to a back room or, even better, to a completely different, more personal location.

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