Do You Lust for More?

In bed they are as different as chalk and cheese. He goes for the kill while she'd rather wait to be claimed, or such is the belief. Here we get a grip on this male-female connect

Why do women need to fake it? Do you think a man can tell when a woman fakes it?

SHE SAYS: They need to fake it simply because men are not always successful! Besides, I don't think a guy could hit the G-spot when he probably doesn't even know where to go in, at the first place. I guess from time to time a man's ego should be massaged and hence women fake it and no, I don't think a man could tell when a woman fakes it - he'd be too busy having his own fun.

HE SAYS: I think women fake it because it's her attitude to finish something she starts. Also, when it comes to the Indian male, his ego needs to be stroked because he might think he deserves that much since he's tried hard. A man can easily tell if a women is faking it. If he knows her well and she over did it then it would get too obvious.

Who takes a 'no' better?

SHE SAYS: There is no question of 'who' will take it better as men most of the time want to sleep with women. They're always willing and I don't think a woman is ever refused on bed by a man. In case this happens, the man in question would either be gay or incapacitated.

HE SAYS: It depends on who wears the pants in the relationship, because the weaker one wouldn't exactly refuse sex - if they did, hell would probably break lose.

On locker room/ kitty-party talk

SHE SAYS: It's very embarrassing to have these meetings. When men get together and talk they are likely to exaggerate things. However, when women get together to talk, they tend to get into all kind of details - that could be very embarrassing for a man. Women can conveniently disucss their personal lives and problems related to sex.

HE SAYS: Everyone needs an outlet for what they feel about various subjects and maybe discussions should extend to the bedroom as well. I guess people would indulge in bragging and articulating, and that's fine, however when it takes on malicious overtones it can be dangerous.

On casual sex

SHE SAYS: I think it's fine as long as it is safe. Although, personally I don't quite like the idea as I'd like some emotion to be involved in the whole affair. You're letting a man into your private space and I honestly wouldn't want some stranger knowing me that well from just a random encounter.

HE SAYS: I think it's fine as long as both parties are game to it, though I wouldn't indulge in it. One has to keep in mind that it is casual and not emotional because you are getting involved with a stranger for just a brief time. Many people get confused about this and mix emotion in a casual encounter too.

On pornography

SHE SAYS: You cannot make sweeping statements. Women could respond to porn as much as men do, the difference is that society follows the age-old dictum 'boys will be boys', when it comes to men but when it comes to women, a whole new morality code comes into play.

HE SAYS: Men are introduced to porn earlier than women. It is one of the ways through which guys get to know about sex. Women are more protected and they can't respond easily to porn as societal reactions do have an influence on them.

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