Insecurity in Relationship - Still Waiting for that Phone Call?

Croping up of such insecurities can prove disastrous for the nurturing of future bondings...

Insecurity can come in many different forms. From being insecure about physical appearance to feeling unconfident about emotional issues; feelings of insecurity often surface in any given relationship at some point. While in some cases the insecurity is a deep-rooted demon from a past bad experience or childhood trauma, in most cases, certain types of insecurities are felt by most people during the initial dating stages and the beginning of a relationship. The following is a list of the most common reasons why an individual could feel insecure both during early dating and at the onset of a relationship.

The Dating Insecurities

Not calling

The first most common reason why people tend to get insecure and back off during the early stages of dating is the fact that they might not receive a phone call as promised. If you are on a date with someone and you are the one who says you are going to call, then make sure to make that phone call. If you say you're going to call in a day or two but call after a week instead, it could give out the signal that you are not very interested.

Only sexual intentions

The very fact that you are going on a date with someone, says that at some level, the attraction is physical. However, even if you have been having mad sexual fantasies about this person, try not to be too blatant about it and throw yourself all over him or her. Many people can start to feel insecure emotionally if they feel that you are only interested in them sexually. So give it time and try not to take things either too fast or too slow. Rather, just go with the flow and let things happen naturally.

Other people

It is perfectly acceptable to casually date more than one person at the same time as long as you are honest about it. So, if you are dating about other people, don't lie about it. You don't lie about it. You don't have to bring it up in conversation, but the honest. Because if the dating turns into a serious relationship, it's only fair to let him or her know the truth about your dating life.

Not interested

Even the most confident individual sometimes needs a little affirmation that you're interested in him or her. If he or she feels that you are not very interested, they might start feeling insecure and start looking for reassurance elsewhere, so as to avoid such a situation, give hints to let him or her know that they are special to you.

Relationship Insecurities

Cheating

The fear that your partner is cheating on you is the worst insecurity to live with and it is also the most common early relationship anxiety that people feel. So, watch out for this one. You do need to address this fear and give the assurance that you are committed.

Bad in bed

This is a very touchy subject and most insecurity stems from this particular issue. So if things are going well in that department, make sure to let him or her know. If not, be sure to address to address the issue in the most sensitive manner possible.

No attraction anymore

Just because you are in a relationship, it doesn't mean that he or she does not need reassurance anymore. In fact, because you are done with the dating and are now taking things a little more seriously, you have to work extra hard to let your partner know that you still find him or her her attractive.

The third person

Do you flirt with other men or women in front of your partner? If you do this consistently, you can't blame them for feeling insecure. There is nothing wrong with harmless flirting but when you're in a relationship, devote all your attention to your partner.

Insecurities can destroy a relationship and the smallest situation can spark a series of unwanted mishaps. So, avoid losing a person you really like, address the issues and move on!

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