Intimate Relationship

Intimacy is a kind of people most of them connects with sex and lustre. But the true meaning of intimacy is different. Intimate relationship could be between two individuals where there occurs a true heart to heart relationship and likeness for them. These individuals have a kind of love, affection, satisfaction, harmony peace and unconditional love and passion in the presence of their partner. Either of them lay down their egos for one another and makes themselves feel lowered and lead the way for the partner to succeed. As both of them does the same, usually both become victorious. Both of them feel a special kind of feeling would love to live their life to the fullest and lodges a feeling that they have got the person of their dreams.

Intimate relationships are those which cannot be described with words, it just means heavenly peace and special kind of understanding between the two. It depends on trust mainly and unconditional love that is truly divine and spiritual. Intimate relationship could exist between a man and women, between people of same sex, two siblings and even two friends. But the term intimate relationship mostly is appropriate to the love that exists between a man and a woman. It can also be had for a large crowd or an audience.

Many people refer sex to a kind of intimacy, it is a kind of intimate relationship but truly to say, it is something entirely different. There are certain things that will help in improving the intimate relationship between the two. These things might really help in correcting behaviors and actions taken. Lack of respect, trust and acceptance of the person would really lead to misunderstandings. People always fear of rejections in their life and also prefer to mend these and this would lead to certain problems. Fears that are inculcated in letting you own feelings bloom make the situations worse. Self-love and acceptance lacking in someone will also be a problem. If ego persists and take the rule of your feelings, attitudes and emotions it might prove to be a real loss for you and for your intimate relationship.

Other things are a relationship which is unsafe that could lead to several problems related to health also, a tragedy or a fear of the past dreadful happenings which is not told out, absence of self-trust, anxious of making yourself safe from the invalidation from the other person, suppressing emotions like frustration, guilt, anger and blame, stressing yourself out and if some kind of emotional blackmail or distress occurs that makes you worry. All these are things that might really make yourself deep in loosing your intimate relationships.

The first thing that leaves a relationship which is either in the half way or in trouble is intimacy. It lives on the aspects of love, care, trust and respect for each other. Loosing intimacy could be regaining and mended by taking utmost care and understanding each other. It should be made clear that it should not be repeated again!

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