How to befriend your sister-in-law

This is one relationship that need not always reflect a saas bahu soap. Because one of the few people that can make your married life blissful (apart from hubby dear, of course) is your sister-in-law. Have her for a pal and you'll have a rewarding relationship. Here's how to win her over...

1) Respect her individuality and give her space.

2) Try being in her shoes, it's a new environment for her so try and making her comfortable.

3) Try compromising and give in to her views sometimes. Don't be adamant and stubborn for no reason. Understand that she will take time, so give her time.

4) Try showing her as much love and affection as you can.

5) Remember if it's a change for you it's a massive change for her as well. Wait for her to get accustomed to it as well.

6) Treat her like a family member giving her love, respect and admiration.

7) Try noticing her good habits and don't search for her negative traits.

8) Once this is done, life is bound to be simpler. It's just a question of your mindset and how much you are willing to give to this relationship. If you weigh the pros against the cons you will realise how beneficial this relationship is for you and your family's future. So next time you are with your sister-in-law, make it a point to appreciate her and try and tell yourself that this is a relationship that you treasure.

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