How to not appear overeager in a relationship

1) Be rational enough to understand your own behaviour. This means that you can change it when you want to.

2) Remember, it is perfectly natural to obsess about a new partner. But be your normal self when you meet them. Show them that you are a normal person with a life and interests and that you have friends to see and things to do.

3) Just don't call them very often and sometimes when they call you, pretend to be busy. Uncertainity is the greatest aphrodisiac in the world.

4) Overeagerness scares any sane person away. So even if you meet someone you'd like to have a relationship with, don't pursue them relentlessly. An organic relationship needs to develop. Just think of it this way - he or she is not about to leave the planet.

5) The best way to calm yourself down is to consider dating as a mathematical equation. Every time you resist calling your bloke, you get a point.

6) Read Mars and Venus on a Date by John Grey. Learn never to try and rush to the next level. You can have sex with your partner whenever you like, just don't tell him you love him/want to marry him.

Mars and Venus on a Date
by John Gray, Ph.D.

Mars and Venus on a Date is for all those single people who are looking for love, including the newly separated or divorced daunted by the singles scene.

With the compassion and understanding that John Gray brings to all of his work, he takes us through the five stages of dating: Attraction, Uncertainty, Exclusivity, Intimacy, and Engagement.

Listeners will find creative ideas on how to find their soulmates and thoughts on how to create a loving and mutually fulfilling relationship.

Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving & Lasting Relationship

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