No Sex in Marriage - How to Put an End to Sexless Marriage

Sex is only a little part of a good union, but happy marriages generally include it. Frequency of sex may be a measure of a marriage’s long-term health; if there is a sudden lack of it, then it may be a leading indicator of deeper problems. Intimacy is often the glue that holds a couple together over time. If either member of a couple is miserable with the amount of sex in a marriage, it can cause destructive problems and, in some cases, it leads to divorce. It can affect moods and spill over into all aspects of life relationships with other family members, and also affect your performance in the office. Occasionally willing partners will be willingly ready for each other in bed next to you. But any efforts to enumerate our love lives must be taken with a grain of salt. The problem, not surprisingly, is that people are not very blunt about how often they have sex.

They don't want sex because they have lost touch with their spouse; essentially the bond that was there has been broken. When they spend too much time towards outside interests and wanting to be with their friends. They don’t feel like getting sexy or even having sex with their own spouse! Marriage needs attention, but they are diverting that attention to their friends. It is true, woman usually give marriage the most attention, but women are also more conscious of what needs their attention and consideration in the home. Face it; women are more aware than men. This is precisely why you shouldn’t break it off. You clearly need to spend more time together and get reacquainted like in the initial stages after your marriage. You cannot do that if you are ignoring your spouse.

If your marriage is sexless or you’re having sex infrequently it is time to bring romance back into the bedroom, you know what to do. In fact, the problem may be just as much insight as reality. Because They have the 100 times a year myth in our minds, and because there are number of movies and TV shows out there with characters who frequently have better than you get sex, it’s easy to think that everybody else is having more fun.

Marriage experts say there is no single reason we are suddenly so unhappy with our sex lives. Many of us are depressed; the sexual landscape may have been changed in the last 40 years by birth control, legalized abortion and a better understanding of women¹s sexuality, but women have changed, too. Since they surged into the workplace in the 1970s, their economic power has grown progressively. Women now make up 47 per-cent of the work force; they are awarded 57 percent of all bachelor’s degrees. About 30 percent of working women now earn more than their husbands. Like never before, women have the financial influence to leave their husbands if they choose.  When women have those kinds of choices, marital duties become options and the question over how much, or how little, sex to have is fundamentally altered.
 
With a little discussion and good rapport you can bring back the spice to your life. All it needs is co-operation from both the partners.

Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage
Expert frank advice for those who want to get Unstuck from a Sexless Marriage.

FIRE-UP Your Sex Life! If you are stuck in a sexless marriage then there is hope for you! I highly recommend the eBook titled “Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage.”

Written by a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 30 years experience, you will find “Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage” to be full of information and advice about a subject that few of us are comfortable talking about. The eBook is 137 pages long, 50 chapters, and it is written in explicit language (as you would expect given the subject). It is thorough, full of solutions, and believe it or not, it is even entertaining!

If you are serious about getting UnStuck from your Sexless Marriage, then this e-book is for you.

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