Dating An Older Woman Advice

Here we are intended to tell you what to keep in mind when opting for a date with an older woman...

If a mother-of-three Demi Moore can attract a young man like Ashton, you know for sure that young and happening men do not mind dating older woman. A survey reported that young men find older women with 'experience' sexy and exciting as a companion.

Here's a guide to help you, if you've fallen in love with an older woman or you don't mind going for such an experience.

EXPLORE

Accept that this relationship, however serious, will be built less on common ground and more on exploring new territory. Don't expect your date to enjoy your talks about party and friends for along time, she will want to relax with a drink. That means you need to change the topic of discussion. Ask her questions about her job, her hobbies, what type of music she likes. Even though, it will not make much sense to you, look engrossed and don't be discouraged if you can't find common ground. You are after all young and you are supposed to know only what you've experienced so far. So what if she's a gardening enthusiast, but you know nothing about it? Ask her to gift you some plants for keepsake and that you promise to nurture the plants according to her gardening tips.

FORGET YOUR GAMES

If you end up in a relationship with an older woman, then the only time you should be playing games is when you turn on your laptop. Forget all the high school dating rules in order to make yourself look cool. The solution is simple: Just act your age and like you feel, not how you think you should according to some dating protocols you were taught by friends in college. If you feel attracted to her, tell her.

If you have the urge to call her, do it. Since an older woman is more likely to be further along in her career than you are, she may insist on paying most of the time, be comfortable about this. But do be a gentleman and offer to buy dinner.

BE COOL

Be prepared to handle comments. Many relationships of younger men and older women have been talked about for a long long time now, but yet such relationships does arouse a lot of curiosity. You'll have to deal with looks and remarks from friends, family, and even strangers. But if you do manage not to stumble by the comments, you'll not only cope, you'll impress your lady with your maturity and charm. If somebody can't help but glare at you and your lady for the obvious reasons, be witty and smoothly say something like, "I don't blame you for staring. She's beautiful, isn't she?"

DON'T DISCUSS AGE

Agreed the lady you are dating is smart, confident and mature but be certain she'll not like her age being mentioned at any given time. You know how women are touchy about their age! She might feel you are subtly reminding her of the age difference between the two of you and that could make her uncomfortable. Please, for heaven's sake avoid a comment like, "Don't we get along so well, despite our age differences". Besides, it's your personalities, not your birthday candles, that are compatible - and that's where you should concentrate. Don't you make the mistake of asking the question like, "Did your town/city have electricity when you were a little girl?"

BE YOURSELF

Remember, she is dating you because she likes you. She obviously had a choice of dating anyone of her age but she didn't. So don't pressure yourself to act more mature. Maybe, she's attracted to you because you are young and have a open mind. You offer spontaneity and fun.

Dating Older Women

I'm 20 and I date a 29 year old woman, and I love it. We're having a great time together, and the age gap makes no difference in how we treat each other. I know that she is young at heart and I am an old soul, so it ends up being a very fulfilling relationship. One thing does come up a lot though: her children. She has 4 children, with the oldest being 14. It was very weird at first, and I got plenty of comments. Just don't let the comments get to you, and you're good to go. Good luck guys, and trust me, when you find someone older, a whole new world opens up to you. - Danny - 2007-04-08