Flirt With Each Other

Even if you've been together for years, experts say flirting sends natural amphetamines and endorphins surging through the body, stimulating an instant emotional "high" not unlike orgasm. Pretend you've just met him (or her) and act as you did at the beginning. Dress sexily, look your partner straight in the eye when he talks to you, and be aware of your body when you move in front of him.

The Secret To Happiness

The key to a happy relationship could be accepting that some miserable times are unavoidable.

Researchers from California State University, North Ridge and Virginia Tech said that accepting these problems is better than striving for perfection. And they blame cultural fairy tales and modern love stories for perpetuating the myth that enjoying a perfect relationship is possible.

"It's a myth that, with enough effort, we can achieve a state without suffering. Healthcare professionals may not helping the situation. The field of mental health perpetuates this myth with the very concept of mental health, which implies a state without suffering. It was important to explore what people mean by a happy and healthy relationship because nobody's life or relationship can be in a permanent state of happiness - there will always be more difficult times," said research team leader Dr (Ms) Diane Gehart, a professor at the university.

But this belief can eventually cause people to believe that with enough effort they can eliminate suffering. There is an unrealistic aim in relationships, and striving to achieve it can lead people to feel they have failed. "Couples need to build strengths, such as understanding in their relationships to help them cope in these hard times and appreciate the good times," Ms Gehart said.

Mistakes Women Make In Bed

You've got too many rules - You'll only make love with the lights off. You object to trying most new things. Newsflash: uptight isn't sexy.

You're too self-conscious - Think you need a perfect body to be a sex symbol? That's bullshit. Men enjoy lovemaking with someone who is uninhibited and confident in bed. You may look like a million dollars, but if you are cold and timid in bed, your beauty is useless.

You're never in the mood - Being sexy isn't something you trot out once or twice a week for 20 minutes, it's a round-the-clock attitude. That means cutting out the tired excuses, too. Once you start putting off passion, it becomes a habit, so make sure you're infusing your daily routine with plenty of randy thoughts.

You're too passive - Learn to manhandle that man! He sures like passion and intimacy, but loves if you heat things up for him. Who doesn't like lusty loving?

You relinquish your right to climax - Don't consider hitting your passion peak as a lucky bonus, but assume it's going to happen; it's just a matter of when and how. Don't let your inner goody-two-shoes talk you out of having the best time you can.

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Ooze Confidence IN Bed

How good do you think you are in bed? Pretty good? Swell. Confidence may be the sexiest thing you'll ever wear to bed. It not only gives you intoxicating evergy, it also brings excitement to whatever you're doing. Lots of things can undermine a person's confidence, but it often comes down to performance. Your husband may worry about whether he can get it up and last; you may worry about whether you'll come and if so, when. But, what matters is not his performance - or yours - on any given night but the overall satisfaction and pleasure you both enjoy over time. You can't aim to always get things right in bed. Sexual confidence comes as much from setbacks as from successes. If you and your husband occasionally bomb in bed, you learn something about yourselves; the more you learn, the more confidence you gain. So relax.

Let Breakfast... DO THE TRICK

On a rainy sunday, when neither of you has any pressing engagements, slip out of bed early and whip up a special breakfast. You'll put a new spin to your routine life by bringing breakfast for your partner in bed, then feeding it to him or her! Select foods you can easily eat with your fingers, such as strawberries, cookies or buttered toast breads. Avoid heavy, rich foods or you'll be in a food coma for hours and perhaps spend the morning napping. If you keep it light, you'll have enough energy to expend on more erotic activities!

Sweet Nothings Mean A Lot

Words whispered into your man's ears will have a wonderfully stimulating effect. Due to the fact that the ears are full of nerve endings, whispering sweet nothings will not only bring pleasure in response to your sugary words, but will also excite the erogenous zones. Sweet nothings are words that are full of love and romance, gently whispered into your lover's ears. When making love, add sweet nothings to increase and heighten the romantic atmosphere. Try whispering a few naughty or suggestive phrases - whatever you are both comfortable with - in his ear. Follow up the word-play with a light nibble, lick or tickle. You'll love the response you receive!

Fathers Like Husbands

Women who got along well with their dads as kids are attracted to men who resemble their fathers, where women who had a bad father-daughter relationship do not.

Researchers at the University of Wroclaw and the Institute of Anthropology in Poland asked a trained anthropologist to perform facial measurements on the photographs of 15 random men as well as the photographs of the fathers of 49 Polish women participating in this new study. The anthropologist calculated 15 key proportions based on how various features - such as lips, nose, cheekbones and brows - related to each face's height and width. The researchers also compared the 15 random faces to each of the father's faces to determine how closely they resembled one another.

The women then rated their childhood relationships with their fathers based on how emotionally invested they felt their dads had been in raising them and how much time their fathers had spent with them. The women were split into two groups based on how positively or negatively they rated their relationships. Then the researchers asked the women to rate how attractively they found each of the 15 random male faces.

The women who had reported positive relationships with their fathers were much more likely to be attracted to men resembling their fathers.

On the other hand women with bad relationships did not find men who looked like their fathers appealing.

"Although no one yet knows for sure why females show these preferences, a woman with a great dad may choose a similar looking mate in the hopes that he will also be a good father," research team leader Dr (Ms) Lynda Boothroyd, a professor of psychology at the University of Durham, England, told reporters recently.