Flirt With Each Other

Even if you've been together for years, experts say flirting sends natural amphetamines and endorphins surging through the body, stimulating an instant emotional "high" not unlike orgasm. Pretend you've just met him (or her) and act as you did at the beginning. Dress sexily, look your partner straight in the eye when he talks to you, and be aware of your body when you move in front of him.

The Secret To Happiness

The key to a happy relationship could be accepting that some miserable times are unavoidable.

Researchers from California State University, North Ridge and Virginia Tech said that accepting these problems is better than striving for perfection. And they blame cultural fairy tales and modern love stories for perpetuating the myth that enjoying a perfect relationship is possible.

"It's a myth that, with enough effort, we can achieve a state without suffering. Healthcare professionals may not helping the situation. The field of mental health perpetuates this myth with the very concept of mental health, which implies a state without suffering. It was important to explore what people mean by a happy and healthy relationship because nobody's life or relationship can be in a permanent state of happiness - there will always be more difficult times," said research team leader Dr (Ms) Diane Gehart, a professor at the university.

But this belief can eventually cause people to believe that with enough effort they can eliminate suffering. There is an unrealistic aim in relationships, and striving to achieve it can lead people to feel they have failed. "Couples need to build strengths, such as understanding in their relationships to help them cope in these hard times and appreciate the good times," Ms Gehart said.

Mistakes Women Make In Bed

You've got too many rules - You'll only make love with the lights off. You object to trying most new things. Newsflash: uptight isn't sexy.

You're too self-conscious - Think you need a perfect body to be a sex symbol? That's bullshit. Men enjoy lovemaking with someone who is uninhibited and confident in bed. You may look like a million dollars, but if you are cold and timid in bed, your beauty is useless.

You're never in the mood - Being sexy isn't something you trot out once or twice a week for 20 minutes, it's a round-the-clock attitude. That means cutting out the tired excuses, too. Once you start putting off passion, it becomes a habit, so make sure you're infusing your daily routine with plenty of randy thoughts.

You're too passive - Learn to manhandle that man! He sures like passion and intimacy, but loves if you heat things up for him. Who doesn't like lusty loving?

You relinquish your right to climax - Don't consider hitting your passion peak as a lucky bonus, but assume it's going to happen; it's just a matter of when and how. Don't let your inner goody-two-shoes talk you out of having the best time you can.

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