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Saturday, May 05, 2007

How to Have A Healthy Sex Life

Do pop some pepper to boost your sex life. Instead of a romantic dinner, champagne or chocolates, eat spicy food, and pop a pepper. As with many aspects of health, including a healthy sex life, what you put in your body makes a big difference. What counts in sex is circuitry as in nerves, and circulation as in blood. And if you're overweight, lose it.

Eat food high in omega-3 fatty acids such as mackerel, salmon, wild salmon and chilly peppers.

"Omega-3 makes your nervous system function better. Sex is really about circuitry," said research team leader Dr (Ms) Barbara Bartlik, a professor of psychiatry and a sex therapist with the Human Sexuality Programme at Weil Cornell Medical Centre.

Researchers have said that multivitamins and minerals will help too. Both improve the neurological function which contributes to good circulation. Improved circulation results in greater erectile response. To accomplish that, reach for food rich in "L-Arginine" such as granola, oatmeal, peanuts, cashews, walnuts, dairy products, green vegetables, root vegetables, garlic, ginseng, soya beans, chickpeas and seeds.

L-Arginine is helpful for improving sexual functions in men. There haven't been studies done on women, but remember, erectile response is something both sexes share.

"Women have erections too, in their clitoris and the tissue surrounding the vulva," said Ms Bartlik.

"What a man puts in his stomach is important, but the heart is the key that opens the door to sexual performance. From an erection standpoint, anything that's good for your heart is good for your penis," Dr Prof John Mulhall, director of the Sexual Medicine Program at New York Presbyterian, and professor of urology at the WM College of Cornell University told reporters.

How to Sex Up Your Love Life

Friday, May 04, 2007

Get Passion Back In Your Life

Lovemaking is much more about attitude than technique.

Get Passion Back In Your Life1. Touch and to be touched - The body is one big erogenous zone. Let your hands explore the more neglected areas for a greater impact on lovemaking. The feet, for instance, are highly sensitive to touch.

2. Encourage your partner - To prevent worrying, "I'm taking too long" or "This won't work," partners should cheer each other on by using positive statements such as, "I'm enjoying this, take as long as you want."

3. Be in the moment - While making love, put all thoughts out of your head. Instead, focus on enjoying your time. When you catch your mind drifting, bring it back.

4. Don't be inhibited - True sensuality and passion require intimacy, trust and removal of inhibitions. With better understanding, you and your partner can start working on the five senses: sight, smell, hearing, touch and taste. If just thinking about these possibilities gets you heated, you're probably nearer to reinventing your passion than you think.

Wednesday, May 02, 2007

Bond For The Best

Bond For The BestThink of having 'intimacy' and not 'sex' all the time. Set aside specific time for intimacy. This might mean an hour away from the house and any possible distractions. Or it could be a bed day, when you have a whole day (and night) together. Here's the kicker to this designated time: no sex. Just intimacy. For those women who've been having sex only because their husband desires it, this will help them explore their sensuality and sexuality. The key is to be conscious of what your body and soul truly want and need, and honour that.

Tuesday, May 01, 2007

Great Ways to Say 'I Love You'

Most unique and romantic ways to say I love youThe best ways to say "I love you" are usually in simple, everyday, seemingly unimportant ways. Leo Buscaglia, who wrote and taught about love, says, "Words and deeds that say, 'You enrich my life' go on forever."

Make sure you say, "I Love You" at least once each day to your spouse.

Write unexpected love notes.

Give your mate an unexpected hug, a surprisingly romantic kiss, or a teasing tickle often.

Share memories by looking at old photographs and talking about memories you share together.

Schedule a day to just be leisurely together.

Listen.

Share why you love your spouse.

Give the gift of your time by performing trivial chores for your spouse, such as folding the clothes, running on errand, washing the car, etc.

Don't forget anniversaries and birthdays.

Smile.

Blow a kiss from across the room.

Dance with your spouse in your own living room.

Hold hands.

Plan and cook a meal together.