Playing Hard to Get?

Not only does playing hard-to-get work, if done correctly, it can help kick-start a relationship. The fact is that men like the thrill of the chase and want what they can't have all the time. It's part of how they're programmed. So, if you act somewhat interested, yet slightly unavailable, they will lap it up like kittens. The key, however, is to balance the chase with a bit of encouragement.

If you sense that your flirtatious snubs and indecision are frustrating him, then give in just a little. This may seem like an antiquated scenario, but the truth is that men like chasing after you as much as you like being pursued. Give your new man the right bait and he'll jump through hoops to get it. Just be sure he knows there's a smart woman somewhere within you.

Playing Hard to Get