Make Love With The Lights ON!

Although women are generally less visually oriented than men in bed, you'd be amazed how arousing it can be to see every inch of your husband's flesh, says Ducky Doolittle, author of Sex With The Lights On: 200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered. Take the time to really gaze at the texture of his skin, the muscles under the surface, the shape of his biceps; feast your eyes as if you're seeing him for the first time. If you're uncmfortable about being in the spotlight yourself - because you've got body parts you're not in love with or because of how exposed it makes you feel - ease into it slowly by lighting candles or dimming the lights.