Patch-Up Time? Get Together With Your EX

If one of your New Year resolutions is to get back with your old flame, read on...

Getting back together with an ex might be a relief at first, ending weeks of misery where you missed each other and wondered why on earth you split up in the first place.

But what usually begins as a heady romantic reunion, full of promises to never leave each other's side, can rapidly deteriorate into arguments and sulking as you discover that not only are the old problems still there, but you've found new reasons to fight too. Before you jump back on the cosy sofa of your old relationship, it's essential to look in minute detail at your reasons for going back, otherwise you may find you're carrying baggage from the past into the next phase.

Ask yourself if could it be that neither of you can be bothered to get back out into the dating world making getting back together the easy - and lazy - option? If you haven't met anyone yourself while you've been apart, what you're feeling could be plain old jealousy rather than the realisation that it was true love.

Also remember that when a relationship ends, for whatever reason, it's tempting to look back on the good times with rose tinted specs as the anger and frustations fade. But if things had been going well surely you would still be together and would have worked at any issues that came up? If the relationship stalled and problems couldn't be solved, do you realistically believe that you're both going to find the impetus to make it work a second time around?

How To Get Your Ex Back!

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