Ask your man out...
Men definitely like it when women ask them out. Actually, what's not there to like? But, before you get busy with your phone and address book, there are a few things you should you know.
For starters, a part of the guy will wonder if you've called him up because you want to have sex with him. Guys are generally hoping to have sex whenever they go on a date, so this probably won't mean he'll behave any different, but you might want to set some limits early on. Unless that is why you called him.
Also, be prepared for lots of dating grey areas: Who'll drive? Who'll pay? Who'll decide where to go? The impetus is generally on the guy to control the flow of events on a date, but since you initiated things, how far will the initiative extend? Ideally, this will be part of the fun, but it can lead to baffled expectations on both sides.
Another thing to consider is something guys have been dealing with since time began - the answer might be 'no'.
How to ask a man on a date
For starters, a part of the guy will wonder if you've called him up because you want to have sex with him. Guys are generally hoping to have sex whenever they go on a date, so this probably won't mean he'll behave any different, but you might want to set some limits early on. Unless that is why you called him.
Also, be prepared for lots of dating grey areas: Who'll drive? Who'll pay? Who'll decide where to go? The impetus is generally on the guy to control the flow of events on a date, but since you initiated things, how far will the initiative extend? Ideally, this will be part of the fun, but it can lead to baffled expectations on both sides.
Another thing to consider is something guys have been dealing with since time began - the answer might be 'no'.
How to ask a man on a date
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