What is he lookin' for?

What exactly are men looking for? Here are those 5 traits that can make even a commitment-phobic think of wedding rings.

1) She has a life of her own and it's pretty good to boot. Ladies, this means that you take care of yourself, pay attention to your personal style and find time to hang with your fabulous friends and family. In other words, he is not your end all and be all.

2) She never makes the first move. Men actually believe that women should never, ever pursue a man. If the woman is always the one calling, she will never know if he is really interested in her or if it's just convenient for him. She may find herself questioning the relationship all the time.

3) She is sexy without being trampy. This means something different at the beginning of the relationship than it does down to the road. In the beginning of courtship, a woman should refrain from making any comments that are overtly sexual. She also flirts by using nonsexual touch.

4) She should be her boyfriend's best wingman - err, wing woman. Help him to look good in front of the boss. Laugh at his jokes and help him shine when it is important. Of course, again, he should do the same for you. And happy wedding!