Is Your Man Smitten By The Compute Bug Instead Of The Love Bug?

If the man in your life cannot take his hands off the smooth curves of his laptop, you would be in a real catch 22 situation. However there is no need to blow your handles off! Handle the issue sensibly to bring out the Casanova in your man.

In this present world of technology, it is no wonder that your man turned out to be a geek; but if he is more passionate about electronic widgets than you, it is time for some smart action from your side.

Learn How to Turn a Techie into a Passionate Lover in Your Life?

Ignore when he is at this computer desk; instead spend your time to read your favorite novel, go for a stroll or go shopping. If your guy fails to take notice of these subtle hints, it is time to move on to the next level. Gently convey the message on how you saw a smart guy with the sexiest body you have ever seen. This should make him a bit jealous and anxious. Now you can make some regular outings to keep him guessing on what you are up to!

If he is spending all your savings to add on the latest gadgets, it is time for you to come up with a hard hitting budget. Tell him that you are saving for the much awaited trip to the paradise islands you both wanted to visit. If he is reasonable he should place his bets on this option for sure. Or you can even tell him that for every amount he spends on computer equipment, you will be splurging the same amount on shoes and clothes.

If he is not doing his share of housework, be ruthless to drive home the point that you are totally disenchanted with his behavior. If things are not making much headway, it is time to get firmer.

Try to be away from him for a couple of weeks to let him live in his own mess. Make sure that he has no food at home so that he has no other way other than to do his own cooking, laundry and washing. This shock treatment should in all probability bring him back to the real world from the virtual world. If he still chooses to turn a Nelson’s yes to the whole issue, the time has come for you to consider your relationship in general.

Start using his computer so that he never gets to use it and see how he likes it when you're never really "there". If your man is sensible enough to understand that life is more important than the television or computer games, it shouldn’t take much effort to let your man know that you are the most important thing in his life.

TURN UP THE HEAT

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