How to know whether or not you are ready for kids

1) Firstly if you have doubts, maybe you should do a heartfelt assessment of your relationship with your partner.

2) Tell him that you are not ready, and commit to a specific time in the future. You have to do this especially if you have already used the vague "I will think about it in a year."

3) If you are worried about not having a life anymore, put a plan in place that will help you make child-rearing a pleasurable experience. For instance, save up money for child-rearing accessories and a nanny.

4) If you are a career-girl, try working from home for a while so you don't lose touch with your industry.

5) There is no sure way to deal with a male who want kids when you don't. Just remember that it is far harder to give in and give your body over to a pregnancy and being a committed mother.

6) The bottom line is that you can only have children when you are ready, emotionally. So, take your time and consider all the issues, discuss them with your partner and then decide.

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